((sorry if this gets a little in depth))
Well, for me it would be arriving home, the kids are at a friend's house. as I open the front door, I do not see my partner, but my search is interrupted by a faint moan, I close the door behind me and walk over to the bathroom, where the sound came from. sure enough, the moan repeats, I recognise the voice as my partner's, I realise the bathroom door is ajar, and I stealthily push it open to find my partner sitting open-legged on the toilet seet, rubbing her clit vigerously, eyes closed. I walk over to her, and grasp her hand, her eyes fly open as I rub her inner thigh, teasing her, before moving to her inner lips. when she seems to be brimming with anticipation, I plunge my index and middle fingers into her, before kneeling and licking her enflamed clit. her moans become the beginings of screams, as I bring her into climax, as she convulses and shudders into an orgasm, I kiss her passionately, carefull not to stop the motion of my fingers.

well, its a toss up between that and pasta

 

I'm gonna get a cat. That way I'll be assured of some pussy when I get home.

 

It's true, I like a good plate of spaghetti.

 

Shes dressed up like a schoolgirl in our bed masturbating I walk in she yells "In here Baby" I walk into the bedroom, see whats happening, she looks me in the eye and says "Fuck me with your big dick Baby" as she spreads her legs wide. I take off my pants get on top of her and pound her tight pussy as hard as I can... HOURish Later. I cum after pleasing her over and over again. I hear an alarm go off from the kitchen. The food in the oven is done. We go eat dinner.

 

that is.... ever so slightly scary, I am not very partial to "pussy" jokes, being a cat lover myself (wait, that came out wrong ).

 

I pick number four, im young i want the sex

 

Sex is over-rated.

All people seem to want is to come back to someone who'll stroke their ego. You're all so... insecure.

 

#3. can't beat a cold beer

 

i can't really agree that sex is overrated to be honest... without it i'm grumpy, headachy and out of sorts... and it's just the tops

but i do agree that some of the users here don't seem to be thinking of their partners as equals, but rather sex toys who live to stroke their ego, like you said.

 

1. My ego isn't what needs stroking.

2. Worst case of projection I've ever seen.

 

Kids: Don't have any
Dogs: 2150 yd² of garden to play in, why they need a walk?
So my dream is come home to find my wife fooling around with catrina604 and i get to join in. And afterwards we call out for takeaway :excited:

 

awww so sweet honey but I would cook. My place is in the kitchen.

 

WTF is with you. I looked you up and you have a rather long thread where you're pretending to be a shemale, with some rather obsessive photoshop work. So... what's your 'culture'? where do you live? what's your background? Are you a man or a woman, or a bit of both?
Men shouldn't be in charge as their 'right'. Sure, it might work in some situations, but there will always be some arsehole. And when that arsehole is assumed to have the right to do whatever he wants to the people he rules over in his household, then some fucked up shit happens. And it's the kind of shit which is never, ever acceptable... which is why no one should be assumed superior.

 

Precious1, sorry your post got hi-jacked! I did like your original question,
and will get back to it in a second...Wow. I don't know which response made me laugh the hardest...?:excited:

I'm pretty sure he was kidding, but still funny as hell.

Yeah, I don't think even the women in catrina's culture would go for that!

Wow. Wow. At first, I thought you were either being sarcastic, or that you were actually a man posting under a woman's name.

But then as I read on, I realized that in fact you were speaking sincerely, from a cultural viewpoint. At first I thought you might belong to one of the conservative religious groups here in the US that teach that role for women, since as Barbaric Swan said, most American wives stopped living that way sometime after the 50s. I'm concluding now that you're from another country, I just don't know which one. For some reason, I want to guess Eastern Europe. Am I close?

I respect that its just the way you think, but at the same time, without meaning offense, you never really had much choice in it did you? From an early age you were taught to fulfill these expectations that you would be in a submissive, subservient role. That this was "the way things are meant to be".

This post is about male fantasies...plenty of men I've known would love to have a partner who thinks they "deserve to be satisfied" every day after dinner! Its true enough that, as you said, many guys want "June Cleaver during the day and a porn star in the bedroom". I guess the question is, should they? Is that really a fair expectation for them to have of their partner, or the most loving and respectful way to relate to them? I know this was our own cultural tradition for hundreds of years, but I personally am glad it changed. I can't help but think that the woman becomes (sorry) like a cross between a maid and a prostitute. You hear women complain about being a sex-object...in this scenario the sex object is also a household appliance that cooks and cleans!

I'm not saying there is anything inherently wrong with the role of "homebuilder" as some here would call it. Its a worthy calling, and sometimes neccesary (especially when there are children). But like so many other things, it has to be by choice - I would never suggest that every woman should automatically have no greater expectation, or that she should build her life around pleasing "her man". Women (people in general) deserve more than that.

Also, we have to realize that what people fantasize about, and what they really want to have in their lives every day, are often very different. I might think it would be sexy to come home and find my wife in bed with her thighs wrapped around the head of that hot young neighbor (with the ubiquitous 3-way that follows...) but the complexity that would add to our lives makes it unappealing in reality. In the same way, while there might be an appeal to a woman in oven mits and apron who crawls under the kitchen table to blow me while I eat the sumptuous meal she prepared...
its appeal to me would be only on the most base, carnal level. I could never respect such a person as my partner. A partner, by definition, is
an equal part - not an inferior. There is something far more exciting on
every level, about being with a person who you know is your equal. Honestly...you might argue more when neither partner bows to the other but there is a mutual respect I would not give up for all the post-dinner
coitus in the world.

 

Oh, hello baller.

 

I don't think theres anything wrong with giving your partner a special treat. Judging from Precious1's previous posts, she's a fairly romantic gal,
so the whole idea is creating a fantasy situation (probably to spice up the routine of a LTR) I would characterize myself as a Feminist, in that I want equal rights for everyone, but I think that its actually a good thing to do what Precious1 was suggesting from time to time. And that applies equally to guys doing special things for their women. I know that my wife
really appreciates it when I do all of my household tasks without her needing to remind me, and help with things she would normally do.

She reports that it actually turns her on, for example, to arrive home from work and find that I got there before her and cleaned the house and have
dinner ready. There are a lot of chores that stereotypically women have a hard time getting men to do - you know the ones! These are the things they appreciate the most when their man does them without prompting!
Have you ever seen the satiric book "Porn for Women?" The pictures are all of buff, shirtless guys, doing things like vacuuming or saying "do you mind if I turn the game off? I'd really like to talk about our relationship..."
Its hilarious. Along the lines of your intial post, Precious1, one recent night when my wife came home (and our son was at a friends) she came in to find me in the kitchen, wearing only a tuxedo-print g-string, while washing the dishes! She was um...very responsive.

You go gurl!!!

That was more than a little scary.

I heard a joke once, but I can't remember exactly how it went...maybe like this: if you think sex is over-rated...you're paying too much for it.
" I am sufficiently disinterested in sex..." No offense, but I call bull-shit.
If you're so apathetic about the subject, what are you doing on the sexuality discussion forum of a porn site?!?! I've always loved the famous Woody Allen quote:
“Sex without love is an empty experience, but, as empty experiences go, it's one of the best.”

I actually make a distinction between love-making and sex, and would agree with you (to a degree) about sex as a purely physical act (not that I would give it up. There are plenty of junk foods I eat for taste alone that I'm not willing to stop eating, and they're actually bad for me!) But when sex is enhanced by emotion and intimacy, there are few experiences which compare.
When I hear people disagree with this, I always think...they must not be doing it right! For me, when theres mutual love, its not just fun, its life-altering.
As far as the ego-stroking, I think that all anyone really wants is to feel loved and that someone cares about them. Most people can go alot longer without sex than they can without affection.

 

LOL! I never answered the question...

I definitely would want to have dinner first...either dining out or ordered in, so she can save her energy for other things. Staring into each others eyes, flirting while we eat, foot sliding up a leg under the table...really good foreplay starts long before you even take your clothes off (I loved a post I read somewhere in which a guy from Italy said the best foreplay starts days in advance, where you build up her anticipation for a romantic evening you've planned for the end of the week...) Then a movie (at home, thank you! Theatres don't allow the level of physical closeness I would want!) Sit on the couch with her either sitting between my legs, back against my chest, or on my lap, while we watch an appropriately romantic or erotic movie, caressing each other the whole time (though deliberately avoiding too much direct sexual stimulation). By the time the movies over, we're both so turned on we practically tear each other's clothes off. Thats the way it is on a good night, when we're attuned to one another and both in the right mood.

As for total fantasy, I think I would like to come home and find all the lights off in the house, and the rooms lit only by candles or fireplace. There would be a note for me at the door saying I should leave my clothes there and come to A. The living room, where I would find her masturbating while watching porn (something she never wants to do with me...) or
B. The bedroom, where she would be dressed in lingerie I've fantasized about seeing on her (probably my favorite would be a fence-net body suit along with a set of those clip-on cat ears and tail...I grew up with a serious crush on Catwoman).

 

I've had enough experiences with empty sex to never want it again.

Sex wtih love is something I've yet to experience, though I am sure it's quite something. However, I have enough ways to show my love to my partner without sex for it to not be something that I am particularly craving.

Perhaps it's also due to the backlash from an abusive relationship I exited last October, and subsequent circumstances, I don't know. But certainly, at the moment, I am quite happy with the sex-free-sexual-action I am currently receiving.

 

Funilingus, may I just say, you rock. its nice to see some reasoning skills around here, instead of simple flaming. I mean, yeah, I do get its a porn forum, people mostly come here to jack off, not debate the meaning of life. but still: +100 coolness

 

Wrong.